What I’m Punking For – This Shit Works!



Shouldn’t it pause our hearts every time we think of the power we possess, in having access to the miracle of technology, especially in the form of social media?

When was the last time voices at all levels of economic reach, from the homeless to the ultra-wealthy, had access to tools that gave us all a more equal voice?

Never.

But we’re in a world where we don’t stop for the miracle painted across the sky each day when the sun rises. Or maybe it’s living at the center of the social media bubble that makes us miss the magic.

Two days ago, you couldn’t have sold me on the idea that a social media event about public health would make me realize how grateful I should be for the tech that connects us.

Health 2.0? Storytelling and public health?

Bunch of hippies are gonna to tell me to stop eating meat, right? Shoot me in the mouth.

Oh wait, there’s gonna be beer there? Ha. Never mind. Meet you after work.

Yeah, I know, I’m a foul mouthed cynic. Before you judge me, let me tell you a little about my world. See if any of this sounds familiar.

Agents of change or agents of ego

Instead of getting into a long spiel about what I do – let’s just say to do what I do well, I must dip a gloved hand into the pool of social media.

At the deepest end of this pool you have the aforementioned power to connect to people nearby as well as across the globe, lightly dancing under your fingertips.

Then at the most shallow end you have egos the size of small planetary systems that burst when even lightly bruised by the dare of critique, even when careful, constructive or merely inquisitive.

To make matters worse these two spheres are constantly engaged in a frantic dueling fandango – the waters mix. And if you want to get to the deep end, at some point you’ll have to wade through the shallow nonsense.

Which is what makes most events on the topic of social media, digital strategy, new media a crap shoot for me.

Will I end up barely tolerating my environment, learning nothing, dodging interaction? Or will the whole evening be worth one powerful, real connection that happens almost in spite of networking?

As irony’s mockery would have it, I was having some health challenges of my own, on my way to this un-conference about public health.

I’ve had a spinal disorder for 17 years that has been increasingly difficult and painful to deal with lately. Not exactly helpful for arriving somewhere on time.

It’s amazing how far willpower can take you, through pride-crushing moments of trying to hide your tears on the street as you propel your body forward, painful step after painful step.

Fast forward to finally arriving at the event.

This shit works!

I’m in a bad mood, I’m in a lot of pain, and the only thing keeping me together is the kindness of the wonderful friend who invited me.

And from the moment we came through the doors, I thought I was on another planet. For a while I couldn’t figure out why everything seemed do different, even though everything outwardly looked about the same.

Then it hit me – these people were excited.

About…. social media? Yes.

I don’t mean to imply that most social media events I go to are awful.

Most of them are at least decent. I’m proud to say I’ve been to more than a few that were sincerely about helping people.

I’m just saying that this Fast Forward Heath event was the best one I’ve ever attended. And it was more about public health and people’s stories than it was about social media.

When it was about social media, it was about using these tools to amplify your voice in concert with others to affect real, positive change that really could change things that matter in our daily lives.

Things as simple as changing what our kids have for lunch in school, in order to break the link between childhood obesity and school lunches.

Or taking the solutions we came up with to send money for natural disasters in other parts of the world, and finding a way to apply the same process to solvable public health problems we have here in the United States.

And that’s what I think the moral to this story was for me.

Remarkable coincidences

There are many times I reminisce with my friends about how great it was when blogging was new to the world and everything about social media seemed so innovative.

The thing is?

It still is. Just not in the area where I spend most of my time.

I’m thinking maybe if I want to fall in love with social media, or for my work to have more meaning, I should hang out at the fringes for a while. See what’s happening in education, public health or social good.

But here’s my problem.

While there are still so many things about social media that ought to change, it will still only be by a remarkable set of coincidences that I even hear about events like this one on public health, that honestly changed my life.

If I’m someone with my ear to the street, surrounded by people in the know and I barely hear about the great things that are happening, how is information getting to people who don’t live online? The attention is still going mostly to the mainstream events, and the things that are going wrong.

But what we’ve begun to show is that when we gather our voices together, we can make the necessary change happen. And there’s a messy intersection where privacy issues, public health and social media meet.

What if there wasn’t a train wreck at that intersection?

The very idea of it inspires me to work towards a day when word of these events some of us attend that make us feel so right, that do so much good, are at least spoken in same volume as our outrage at what is wrong.

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Tinu Abayomi-Paul is the CEO of Leveraged Promotion and a member of Network Solutions Social web Advisory Board. Her website promotion company specializes in cost-effective reputation management and customized web visibility solutions.


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mindofandre 7 pts

Wow Tinu! Thanks so much for writing about the event! We were SO happy to have you come out along with Liz. Just reading about the circumstances in which you pushed through to get there makes it even more real to me. I wanted to FastForward Health to be an event where people from all different areas could come together and see the good stuff going on to make our communities healthier. Trust me, I also know the dilemma of social media overload and cynicsm, which is why I returned to my roots of public health and working to just make solutions with all these tools.

Stepping outside the box sometimes is truly refreshing. Looking forward to hanging out when i get back into DC again!

Tinu 364 pts

Man, I barely count this as writing about the event mindofandre. I have another up my sleeve that I'll be posting to one of my own blogs due to its length. But man, did I feel your welcome. And the pride in your wife's eyes. And the electric passion in the air.

It also struck me so deeply to see people inside and outside of the current health system bonding so deeply and making such strides together. Truly a beautiful thing that shifted my own track too. Hearing the doctors talk about how we give so deeply and fully for the sudden natural environmental disasters made me think of so many possible solutions for giving for the ongoing unnatural health disasters. On G+ another person asked why we don't just crowdsource the debt of our neighbors and the country and I thought - MAN, why DON'T we?I'm still SO inspired and awed. Thanks to you and all the people you work with for putting that together.

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halffiction 47 pts

I often tell people that where we're at in terms of technology in terms of social and app is like when we first saw the Atari 2600 – we were really mesmerized by the fact that we can move something on the screen for the first time. The modern equivalent is what an effect social can have in so many ways but we've only scratched the surface. But it's the same "my TV used to be one way, now I can affect what's on it" as opposed to "brands talked to us and didn't listen, now it's a conversation." In terms of being overwhelmed and not finding things in any other way than by accident, that's about to change in the next few years. The semantic web will end search as we know it and your computer will start to suggest things to you based on your preferences that it learns. There are a lot of players in this but you'll see a lot of competition between Google, Facebook and Apple - whose Siri launch is the first step of their semantic play.

Tinu 364 pts

It seems like it's taking Forever though - another symptom of being located inside the bubble. It's like living inside the Beltway and feeling jaded about government, then suddenly noticing so many government websites become useful, and processes that used to take months take days... I'll try and be more patient. :)halffiction

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juliepippert 37 pts

I always keep myself connected to amazing people who are doing incredible things -- social media for social good -- with this medium for *this very reason.* They are passionate about an important cause, and social media is a means, not an end. And they are so excited about how it is a means, and what it can mean. It has bolstered health messages (txt4baby, cancer, HHS accessible care), social good, fundraising, beleaguered arts organizations (which I am profiling here soon!) and more. you are so mindful! Love it. Thanks for the message. Also? I pause to take in one beautiful thing a day. :)

Tinu 364 pts

Don't think I'd have survived this long if I didn't stop to look at one breathtaking moment or thing every day. My favorite is the sky. I've had a lifelong love affair with it. juliepippert .Thank you so much for commenting. If you have a calendar of those events, I'd love to hear about it. It would be worth traveling for. geoffliving is kind enough to put me on the list for some of the ones he's involved in, and they never disappoint.

It's funny because it's not that I forget the worlds are THERE. It's that I forget to connect to them, to donate myself as a resource to them, or connect them with some of my rock star friends in SM.

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kamichat 42 pts

Tinu, When I started hanging out on the corners in social media I was so excited and passionate about its possibilities. These days I am more cynical. It is easy to get there. However, it CAN be used as a force for good, and that is what I am determined to do. I love what you shared here and how you face what you struggle with both grace and grit. Also how you put relationships before even your own pain. Not many do that.

Tinu 364 pts

Well technically I put DRINKS before my own pain. ;) LOL kidding. Thanks so much Kami, means a lot. kamichat

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Liz 51 pts

A beautiful post and an important message. Too many are too self involved to push the envelope and go outside the safety of their boundaries. You discovered and shared what can happen when they do.

Tinu 364 pts

It was truly magical spending an evening in your world Liz - I am truly a convert. There's this pocket of love where I might be able to use my little bit of talent to solve some of those issues that those two awesome professors, rsgold and chiefmaven were talking about. I could have sat and listened to them for at least another hour.

Thank you SO much for inviting me and being so good to me during my painful moments. Not a lot of people know how to be caring and helpful without calling a lot of unwanted attention or making a person feel... pitied.

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maddiegrant 64 pts

Wow. What a post. I can totally relate to your dilemma - I'm still that shiny new toy addict (in a good way), I still feel very passionate about all of the possibilities of social media, and yet some of the events which purport to teach us and dig deeper turn out to be bone-crushingly dull. But there are definitely pockets of brilliance out there in the hands of people living and working with it every day. I feel like we're just not showcasing the right people. Because if we were, coming out feeling like you did would happen all the time. Raising a glass to you, doll. Cheers!

Tinu 364 pts

Thanks so much maddiegrant . You know when I was thinking about not going, and calling Liz to beg her to ask someone else, before I picked up the phone, I went to.... uh... my thinking room and reading where you folks said in Humanize "there is no trust without risk" and remembering my first read through and the part about being consistent. And then also about sharing information. And I thought, here I am hiding behind this veil of pain, about to cancel on something that good be really great - worst case scenario I get a budding friendship further off the ground with some one on one time. Can I really take care of my body if I'm not taking care of my soul? Is my word any good if I beg off a social/learning engagement for a dumb reason? I'd be in the same pain at home as I would be there. So you're a large part of the reason I went, you and Jamie. After I finish my second read, I'll have a lot more to say, and I'm saying them as reviews. Thank you for that book :)

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maddiegrant 64 pts

Tinu don't make me cry you silly girl!!

Tinu 364 pts

Just trying to be real with you. :) maddiegrant

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danperezfilms 128 pts

Tinu,

This post not only kicks booty but perfectly illustrates where social media is still at its best. If only most bloggers brought it like you did here maybe we wouldn't need PVSM.

Nuff said.

suegrimm 14 pts

danperezfilms I agree. Talk about "bringing it!" This post Rocks

Tinu 364 pts

Thank you Sue. Haven't we met (online) before? suegrimm danperezfilms

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suegrimm 14 pts

Tinu Yesterday we did on spinsucks . Then you popped up here, I read your post and seriously was blown away.. Not a lot of people can knock it out like you did and I mean that sincerely. I've been reading a lot of blogs for awhile now and these are the sorts of messages that I hope people really hear. I just started commenting as of yesterday and may be hooked now but that's another story ;-)

Tinu 364 pts

aw man. :) Thanks. I feel all blushy now... If you think I'm something... let's just say I've been upping my game to hang around with these folks. Not even half of the ones who intend to participate have posted yet. And they have so much to say. Half the time I disagree with half the things they say but you Cannot deny their brilliance. Not one of em. suegrimm spinsucks

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Tinu 364 pts

Thanks Dan. You rock too - I saw a documentary called Lunchline while we were there and thought of you and your daughter - http://flavors.me/lunchlinefilm.com - she's so beautiful I'm betting she doesn't eat any of that crap that pretends to be nutritious food. danperezfilms I think we always need some version of PVSM though, some open space where there can be dissent, though in a slightly more presentable way than we would behind closed doors. When we band together and say "yes there is an alternative" instead of mumbling "naw man this is bullshit" in our houses by ourselves, change can happen.

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DenVan 40 pts

To quote a rock star: "I’m thinking maybe if I want to fall in love with social media, or for my work to have more meaning, I should hang out at the fringes for a while." Oh wait. That's you. Yes. Yes. Yes.

Thanks for making it exciting.

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Tinu 364 pts

LOl please don't call me a Rock Star. I'm having enough problems checking my ego. ;) THanks for commenting D. DenVan

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HowieSPM 2326 pts

love this post Tinu!

I think the issue with Social Media is the soap box. i can be a rock star physicist. I can speak at conferences. Show papers for review. I can become really well known in my profession. And if lucky maybe help invent something or get published in a scientific journal. The baker and the car wash and the restaurant won't give a flying shit. They aren't coming to see me speak or read what I publish.

But when the social media star who used the power of the soapbox to get known comes around the small business owner get confused thinking the power for an individual is the same for them. Does the baker want to interact with the car wash on Twitter or Facebook? hell no. But they all want to touch the social media star. and that star is like the old televangelists 'Give me money and I will save you' but we all know you won't be saved by what they preach.

I have never been to a conference but occasionally OMMA will have a conference and UStream it live. And 2 years ago I watched 4 presentations from people really high up in Fortune 500 companies about social media...and not one mentioned Facebook or Twitter. So these events exist and the people exist. Just finding them can be hard.

Tinu 364 pts

Exactly. The social media star model is confusing for small business owners who just want their business to be visible. There's a lot of people who can't hear the practical application through the haze of all the ego-stroking stuff that sometimes comes with it. It's like seeing a celebrity chef who is famous but is never actually see with food. HowieSPM

Not like I'm special or better - I have an ego too. But I can get through doorways still. Plus I know it's there and try to keep it in check. I really think that if we're able to tackle some of the noise that's created by the problems no one seems to want to point out or talk about, we'd hear more about these wonderful events that are out there.

And then I would enough sleep to come up with a better title. Ack - what was I thinking. Thanks for your comments Howie.

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halffiction 47 pts

TinuHowieSPM Also, a lot of these conferences that don't feature the social media rock stars use high execs at Fortune 500 companies to explain social – which again for the small business is irrelevant. When Coke does a social campaign they have a head start of millions of fans and followers. A local business needs a strategy to first attract the followers in the first place and then engage them. Some of the "success" stories of social media had more to do with the brand's existing DNA and relationship with its customers pre-social than anything they did strategically.

Tinu 364 pts

Absolutely. The importance that is placed on masses of numbers is an important issue to fight against as well, and that's part of the reason. In the beginning, before social media, I chased numbers too. It's a great theory until you succeed. You get a million visitors to a site and then wonder - can I afford this? Do I want all this attention? Can I fill a million orders? Moderate a million people on a forum? Do I want to? Sounds so much better on paper when you don't have the resources to keep up... halffiction HowieSPM

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danperezfilms Thanks for retweeting, Dan the Man. :-) PunkViews

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tinu I felt your fire reading that post! Well done...

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danperezfilms Much appreciated friend. I cut about half of it and made another post about the actual event that I'll put up this weekend.

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tinu It was fierce. Nuff said :)

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spurdave Thanks for retweeting my potty-mouthed post, Big D!

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tinu LOL tell the other 25 million active tweeters that 8)

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